“Have Sex With Your Partner Before Deciding to Marry Them” - Dayo Amusa Sparks Heated Debate on Marriage and Compatibility

“Have Sex With Your Partner Before Deciding to Marry Them” - Dayo Amusa Sparks Heated Debate on Marriage and Compatibility

Nollywood actress Dayo Amusa has set social media buzzing after sharing her thoughts on sexual compatibility in marriage.

The actress has reacted to a statement made by relationship coach and pastor, Godman Akinlabi who stated that people who do not value sex should rethink marriage. Amusa, in response to the comment, said that intimacy is an important aspect of marriage and should not be a taboo. According to her, many couples enter marriage deeply in love, only to discover later that they have different sexual desires, expectations, and preferences. She noted that while affection and companionship are important, they may not be enough to sustain a marriage when fundamental compatibility issues arise.

“The essence of cohabitation goes beyond cooking and laying of bedsheets,” Amusa wrote, adding that intimacy ranks among the most important aspects of a healthy marital relationship.

The actress further advised couples to have honest conversations about their sexual expectations before making a lifelong commitment. She maintained that understanding one another’s needs beforehand can help prevent future frustrations and misunderstandings.

Her words soon sparked off a debate on the internet, where many agreed that sexual compatibility is an important factor of marital bliss. But others disagreed, saying decisions like that should be guided by personal values, faith and cultural beliefs. As reactions continue to pour in, Amusa’s remarks have once again highlighted the ongoing conversation about what truly makes a marriage work and whether compatibility extends beyond love alone.