"I Grew Up Disliking My Dad Because of the Version of the Story My Mum Told Me" – Segun Johnson
Singer Segun Johnson has opened up about being raised by a single mother and his childhood experience with his father, revealing how he later understood the circumstances that led to his parents' separation and his father's polygamous lifestyle.
"I Grew Up Disliking My Dad Because of the Version of the Story My Mum Told Me" – Segun Johnson
Speaking on the WithChude Podcast, Johnson said his father was polygamous and explained that his decision was influenced by the desire of some African men to have male children.
"My dad was polygamous. So I realized later when I grew up that my mom just followed the same steps that six other women had followed before her," he said. His comments shed light on a pattern that he believes is common in many African families, where men marry multiple women in pursuit of male offspring.
Johnson explained that his father's mentality at the time played a significant role in his decision to become polygamous.
He noted that many African men prioritise having a male child and that women who fail to produce sons are often chased out of their homes. "So most African men usually want to have a male child.
Right. So when they get married to a woman and the woman is not giving them a male child, usually you see them chasing the women out of the house," he said. His father, he explained, was no different.
The singer revealed that he grew up disliking his father because of the version of the story his mother told him. He explained that he was raised by a single mother who painted a negative picture of his father, and that he only came to understand the full story as he grew older.
His experience reflects the complex dynamics of family relationships and the impact that parental conflict can have on children.
Johnson's willingness to share his story has resonated with many who have experienced similar situations. His reflections on his father's polygamy and the reasons behind it offer a nuanced perspective on a practice that is often criticised without understanding the cultural and social factors that drive it. His journey from resentment to understanding serves as an example of how personal growth and maturity can lead to a more balanced view of family history.
As Johnson continues to build his career, his story serves as a reminder that the relationships we have with our parents are often shaped by circumstances we do not fully understand until we are older.
His openness about his past has endeared him to fans who appreciate his honesty and his willingness to share his experiences.
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